Thursday, September 27, 2007

NURTURE FRIENDSHIPS

What do your friends bring to your life?

An extra wardrobe,
a box of tissues with your name on them,
happy hangovers and great memories?
Or maybe it’s more like guilt-trips galore, criticising comments and constant headaches?

“Friendship is not designed to be a burden,” warns Purcell.

“It’s a reciprocal relationship that’s important to your whole wellbeing.
Good friends generally offer their encouragement, honesty and laughter. They’re there to help shape us, support us and offer a refuge.”

If these attributes don’t ring true for certain names in your address book, then maybe it’s time to do a bit of deleting. Of course, friendships go through ups and downs and it’s a bond that needs care and maintenance – however, if it’s continually causing more pain than pleasure, it’s time to question whether it’s worth the time and emotional energy.

-quoted fr CLEO - Life Coach
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